As the country opens up again and summer is in full swing, we are all filled with so many mixed emotions: excitement to get out and meet people again, definitely, but also certain trepidation after begin separated for so long.

Will we remember how to socialise? How close can we get? What if others are more cautious than us, will we upset them?

“What are you comfortable with?”

One thing is for certain, the world we are emerging into will never be the same and there are some fundamental differences which need to be addressed: the foremost of which is obviously ‘What are you comfortable with?’ I think this will be the next ‘Hi, how are you?’ opener in everyday situations.

Some people are desperate to get back to hugging and yet others will want to keep a distance for the foreseeable future. I know we are navigating this issue as my Improv Group takes to the stage again this month. Some members are highly cautious, whilst others are desperate to get up close and personal, so a lot of our prep work included navigating safe spaces for everyone.

I would recommend being willing to ask the question and most importantly accept whatever answer you are given: this is not a time for talking people around, debating or getting offended if someone has a different perspective to you.

Many people want to keep masks in order to feel safe – so respect that without comment. Still others hate them and can’t wait to leave them behind – again, respect their wishes. I think the classic phrase right now is ’stay in your lane’ and communicate clearly what you want and need.

Enjoy summer after so long shut away

Then, it’s time to have fun. Meet up with family you have not seen in months, finally get to hold those ‘lockdown babies’ you have only seen in pictures or on video calls, and share your love once again. Hopefully we can travel, see a bit of the country if not the world, and actively enjoy summer after so long shut away.

One final word, for those living alone without families, remember that you are seen, heard and valued, and simply making eye contact and smiling on the street will open up doors for you. Why not start being ‘that person who talks to strangers’ and give yourself the gift of connection too!
Until next month, stay safe and remember your sunscreen!